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Women hate these 4 things you do during oral sex

Oral sex position: And if your go to is the basic oral sex position, sit on the far edge of your bed or a chair so that your partner can have easy access to your clitoris. Have him kneel between your legs and he will have more access to go crazier than you ever imagined.

Here are the most common mistakes you could be making.

Written by Tania Tarafdar |Published : November 27, 2017 4:15 PM IST

Yes, clitoral stimulation is key to stronger female orgasms but you cannot expect your partner to be satisfied by spending only a few seconds down there. Making a woman come is no cake walk and can take a lot of time and effort. And some of the oral sex mistakes can turn her off completely. These mistakes can immediately turn her oh yes into oh no .

1. Rubbing the clitoris in the wrong way

The clitoris is a very sensitive area and striking it too hard can be extremely painful. We understand your enthusiasm but that actually hurts. Try to touch all the sides of the clitoris from the inside to the outside to avoid irritation. By lightly flicking your tongue in your partner s clit, and inserting a few fingers in her vagina you can give her immense pleasure. Here's a man's step-by-step guide to pleasuring his woman.

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2. You use the same hand motion every time

Getting caught in a sexual rut is never fun. Try new things if you find yourself in the same position every time. She will not like it any more if you go down on her and do the exact same thing. Changing your sexual routine can be something as simple as changing the motion of your hands or caressing or licking her thighs for a longer time. This can create a build up anticipation which can make her orgasm.

3. You expect her to return the favour

Do not go expect your woman to go down on you just because you went down on her. Women are not always up for returning the favour. Just take time to pleasure your partner and focus on how your partner feels. She will then be more inclined to treat you the same way. Here are 5 ways to make your woman give you oral and actually enjoy it.

4. You do not communicate

Communication is key to pleasure your partner. You need to be upfront about your needs and talk to her about what you do not like in the bedroom. At the same time, it can work against you if you go down on her and do not ask her how it felt. It can make your partner feel like you really do not care.

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