Hi I am a 28-year-old male based in Mumbai. I recently got married and tried having sex with my wife a couple of times. However she complains of pain. I have heard that lubricants can help in this situation. I don't know which type to buy. Can't I just use vaseline or some moisturizer? Dear newly married 28-year-old it is good that you are patient with your wife and are trying to fix the problem. Lubricants do help especially during the first few times. Water-based lubricants are the latest rage among couples because they have clear advantages over the other