Tips for spooning to increase intimacy

Try spooning for foreplay and afterplay to feel more connected to your partner

By: Bhakti Paun Sharma | | Published: January 31, 2017 12:28 pm

Spooning is the best thing ever. During intercourse, it allows for added pleasure and during after-play, it creates a comforting feeling. Spooning is a great way to initiate sex too. For men who hate to talk after sex, spooning is a great way to make your partner feel loved and appreciated without compromising on your quiet time post sex. Using the right technique to spoon is also necessary so that you both enjoy it and build more intimacy. Here are some tips to remember while spooning:

Kiss when you snuggle: Soft, romantic kisses when you are snuggling are the best way to melt your partner. Pecks on the cheeks, neck or behind the ears, on the shoulder can really amp the experience. Don’t go overboard, kiss gently and occasionally. This kissing can also set pace for another round of hot sex.

Change positions: The man does not need to be the big spoon all the time. Change positions from time to time to feel close to each other. The feeling of the woman spooning from behind makes the man feel cared for. Also, keep changing positions of your arms, legs gently so your body parts don’t fall asleep. You don’t need the tingly sensation to distract you and take the charm away from spooning.

Get comfortable: If you are not going to be comfortable in this position, you are never going to enjoy it. So set your position right. Find out where exactly you can place your arms, legs, hands or any other body part so that there is maximum contact and comfort. Don’t move a lot when you are spooning as it gets annoying for the partner. Read: 5 things your sleeping position with your partner reveals.

Keep in touch: Connect with your partner at the right places. It is necessary that your bodies are touching each other and if possible, breathe in sync. Feel each other’s heartbeat or breathing to feel the connection and bond you share. The waist, hands are parts that incite affection and intimacy. Always make proper contact with them. Here are some tips to build intimacy in your relationship.

Use it as foreplay: Snuggling, spooning or cuddling are exciting and tender ways of initiating action. Imagine your body parts touching each other at sensitive places, stroking your partner’s hair, it arouses you just in the right way when you want to enjoy sex without it being too hardcore or adventurous.

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Published : January 31, 2017 12:28 pm

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