Anal sex lies in that grey territory where a lot of couples want to try it out but are too worried about how to do it. Here are some tips to get you started: Start small We're not telling you not to get excited just that don't just spring the idea on someone without any precautions. Keep lubrication handy because unlike the vagina the anus doesn't have natural lubricants. If you've never had anal sex you can try smaller things like digit (finger) penetration a sex toy or a butt plug to see if the woman's comfortable with it. DO
