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5 thoughts that cross every woman's mind while having sex

In case you were wondering, this is what a woman thinks about during sex!

Written by Anuradha Varanasi |Published : December 2, 2015 6:50 PM IST

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While for most women, having sex can be just as enjoyable and pleasure as it is for the guy, it is definitely normal for the mind to wander and certain thoughts to creep into her mind during the act. If you re clueless about what your woman might be thinking while things get heated in bed, these five thought on what go through every woman s mind during sex might help you gain some insight on what you can take into consideration to make the experience more comfortable and secure for her.

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Should have done some crunches before meeting him

This is the first thought that momentarily crosses almost every woman s mind when she is undressing herself or getting undressed by her partner unless she happens to be one of those super rare specimens who was born with washboard abs. There are also certain sexual positions that women fear might make them look more flabby than usual and that is when she tends to lament over the fact that she didn t hit the gym to look her best. These are the 5 sex positions every woman loves!

I wish the lights were dimmer

Lighting is an important part to set the mood and create the right ambience for both the parties during sex. While you might want to leave the lights turned on to get a clear view of her body whilst having sex, dimming the lights down might be a better option.

Why didn t foreplay last longer?

While a guy is anxious to rush to the final act, the woman is often left wondering why the foreplay didn t last longer. For many women, foreplay is a lot more arousing and fun than the intercourse. Also, remember to return the favour if she goes down on you. Don t be selfish! Other than this, these are the 10 things women wish men knew about sex!

I wonder where he learned that move

While in some cases, she might be genuinely impressed with your technique and wondering how you might have learned it, there will also be times when she will be surprised, but not in a good way. That is, if you tried something you saw in a porn movie and thought was cool. Instead, here's How to give your woman an orgasm she ll never forget!

How much longer before he comes?

The most common thought that runs through a woman s head. There is no need to go on with a never-ending marathon session because that only becomes tedious and even painful for a woman after a point. Instead, keep a time limit of 10-12 minutes and if it is taking longer than that, it would be better to give it a rest. Here are the Top 5 reasons women fake an orgasm during sex.

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