5 signs your husband or boyfriend is a man-child

Are you dealing with one more kid that your mom-in-law passed on to you?

By: Bhakti Paun Sharma | | Published: June 6, 2016 9:07 am

There are various relationships patterns you observe among couples. Some are besties, some the perfect example of opposites attract and then there is a parent-child relationship too among married couples. As weird it may sound, when one of the partner in most cases the husband is a little childish, the wife takes the role of a guardian or parent in handling him. It may also be termed as irresponsible behaviour to avoid any offence to well-behaved children. Here are some secrets to a happy married life. Also Read - Don’t forget to ask your partner's blood type before tying the knot

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Are you wondering if your partner is just immature, irresponsible or actually a man child? Here are some tell-tale signs to know that: Also Read - Premarital views about uncommitted sex effects marriage : Report

1. Behaves inappropriately As an adult one knows that a call from a friend is not as important at a wedding or funeral or when you are sitting for a family dinner with parents and relatives. But he doesn t understand that. In fact, he often refuses to eat what everyone else is eating just because he wants to have some junk food or a sandwich. If you are embarrassed by such behaviour of your partner, it s a sure sign that he is not more than 4 years old.

2. Gifts for himself It s your birthday and he buys you tickets to a cricket match or takes you to a sports bar for celebrations. This obviously means that like a kid he decides the place of his choice and gets you things he wants for himself. You should ideally be doing these 10 things together.

3. Loves being pampered– Unlike most men, this breed of husbands love being pampered and cuddled. They are thrilled if you baby talk to them and give them presents. Just like a 2-year-old, he wants recognition and appreciation for the smallest thing he does and that does not include doing dishes or helping with household chores.

4. Can t be the shoulder you want to lean on These men want life to be a party. They run away from sad situations. They are never available when you need some emotional support or just a warm hug and comfort. You will never hear them say, Everything will be fine honey, don t worry. They are more than happy to change the topic to something stupid when you are discussing an important issue with them. Here are signs that tell you your partner is emotionally immature.

5. The typical kid They love toys and won t refrain from playing with your kids toys. They won t share their ice cream or fries with you but will gladly take a few tastings from yours. They ll even hold grudges over your smallest mistake and remind you of it on every chance they get. At a party, they will be seen with kids or clinging to you instead of mingling with your friends.

Above all, they are selective listeners. They will assimilate only those things that are favourable to them and will make them happy. They are not concerned with your wishes or happiness. Basically, you just feel that you are handling another 3-4 year old instead of sharing your life with a partner.

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Published : June 6, 2016 9:07 am

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