No one wants to be in an abusive relationship but if you are it's always wise to get out of it as soon as possible. We're not just talking about physical violence here but also emotional or mental abuse. Both affect you deeply and might leave a scar forever. Here are ten signs you must look out for if you feel you're in an abusive relationship. Here's a guide on how to breakup with someone. 1. Constant humiliation or embarrassment Respect is a very critical part of every relationship. Make sure you respect your partner and he/she respects you too.