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Sex Tip #98 – Don’t fake an orgasm

You reach orgasm: Did you know 5:48 am in the morning is the best time of the day to have sex? A study published in the British Medical Journal found that this is the time when you are most likely to orgasm.

Ladies, here's why you should avoid faking an orgasm at all costs if you want to have a more fulfilling sex life!

Written by Anuradha Varanasi |Updated : February 23, 2016 11:55 AM IST

Almost everyone wants and enjoys sex. It is a great way of beating stress, burning some calories and also building intimacy with your partner. But what about instances when only he manages to achieve an orgasm and you re nowhere close to the big O? There are many reasons behind why women are far more likely to fake an orgasm than men.

While you might fake an orgasm without a second thought, have you considered the fact that it isn t really helping you in anyway? In fact, it only prevents you from achieving an orgasm because your partner has been living under the false notion that he s able to make you come regularly during sexual intercourse.

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Instead of doing this to protect his pride and put up with mediocre to bad sex, it is a far better idea to just be upfront with your partner and tell him that you ve not been enjoying sex as much as he thinks you are. Don t shy away from the idea of effectively communicating with your partner on what you would want him to do for you in bed. This is because by constantly faking an orgasm, you could only end up hurting his feelings once he finally finds out about it.

The sad part is that many women think there s something wrong with them if they re unable to orgasm but in reality, it is because your partner doesn t know how to stimulate your erogenous areas like your clitoris, nipples, breasts, among others. These are the 10 ways to know whether you re having sex or making love . Guide him in bed and be patient. With some practice and effective communication, you will achieve the big O.

Communicate and compromise

Of course, there will be times when you re just tired and stressed out due to which you couldn t enjoy the sex as much as him but in such cases, explain to him that it s not his fault. After all, sex can t be perfect all the time and it is perfectly fine if only one of you achieves an orgasm. By following these two steps, you will notice a drastic improvement in your sex life and your partner will respect you for coming clean and telling him how you really feel! These are the 5 myths about female orgasm that you should know about.

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