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Sex Tip #78 – Guide his hands to pleasure you

Place his hand in yours and guide him to do exactly what you want in bed. Here's how you can initiate.

Written by Anuradha Varanasi |Updated : December 18, 2015 11:58 AM IST

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How many times have you been in bed with your partner and wished that he would touch and caress you in a certain manner? While you may even try to communicate with your partner and tell him how you would want to be touched, whether it is your intimate parts or just your arms, back and neck, you might still feel something is missing despite his efforts. However, don t fret. It is normal for your partner to feel slightly confused when you ask him to touch you in a specific way and he might not be able to figure out whether you want to be touched gently, or if he should apply some pressure to your pleasure spots or not. You could also try these 5 foreplay moves for a better orgasm.

Instead of just groping in the dark, hold his hand and guide him. Place his hand in yours and gently run it across each part of your body, from your eyes, mouth, neck and back to your inner thighs, belly and vagina. While you re giving his hand a tour through the wonderland that is your body for him, tell him which parts of your body are the most sensitive and which ones you would prefer to be left alone during foreplay or even intercourse. Once you have clearly pointed out your pleasure points it might be your neck, nipples, vagina or even the small of your back, proceed by telling him how you would like to be caressed. Do you prefer circular motions, or just being gently caressed or do you want him to use his fingers on certain areas of your vagina? Show him exactly where your clitoris is and guide his fingers on how you want it to be stimulated.

This session could turn into an extremely intimate bonding session for the two of you and you could also achieve the big O after a few trial and errors! Here's how to achieve an orgasm by masturbation. You could also make him hold your hand and guide it through his body s pleasure points after good communication has been established in bed. Other than this, you can also try mutual masturbation with your partner.

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