For men having women on top might seem very enticing to start sex after pregnancy. But for many women, especially those who are little averse to experimentation in bed and are reeling under the stress and strains of pregnancy and delivery this might seem like a task. However, when it comes to starting having sex after pregnancy this is one of the best ways to do it. The woman on top position is also called the cowgirl position where the man lies on his back and the woman straddles on top of him. This gives the girl the opportunity to reign control over the movements and have sex at a pace she is comfortable.
Since this position doesn t put any pressure on the woman s abdomen (in case her c-section scar is still healing) or on her vagina (in case of an episiotomy scar) it helps to spice things up and bond better post pregnancy. While there are other sex positions one can try having sex in the shower, against the wall, spooning woman on top helps to do it a better way.
If the woman has not been experimental enough pre-pregnancy, there cannot be a better time to try this position and maximise pleasure. Women, read along and get some action back in life again.
How to do the right way:
Indulge in foreplay for a while so you are excited enough to try this position the man should get an erection and the woman lubricated enough for smooth penetration. Kneel and straddle across the man s pelvis facing him and slowly insert the penis into the vagina. When inside, slowly glide up and down and use your hands in a way you are comfortable to balance yourself. Keep your hands on his chest or shoulders or on your own pelvis and squeeze it so it puts a little more pressure on his penis, he is going to thank you for this later.
The beauty of this sex position is you can give pleasure to your man the way you like leaning back and forth, rocking from side to side or in a circular motion. Each of those changes would alter the angle and depth of penetration which will stimulate the vaginal area and his organ for a better orgasm. Your man's hands are free to reach and touch your breasts, clitoris, buttocks, face etc. Allow him to be naughty and touch your erogenous zones with his hands. Sure, you are going to like it like crazy. Ask him to stimulate your nipples or suck on them as you lean a little forward. Another good thing about this position is you both can maintain eye contact and exchange dirty looks.
Your man can also thrust his pelvis upward to give you enough feel and stimulation. When you both reach climax, you can fall on your man s chest and rest for a while. Once done, be careful while mounting off your man. Spread your pelvis a bit and free his penis from your vaginal area, next slowly move to a side, well if you still feel more romantic, hug, cuddle, bite his ears and excite him once again for another round of action.
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