So you caught a boyfriend red-handed. Did you think the theatrics would end? No! In fact the drama has just begun. Cheaters caught in the act often go on the defensive doing and saying everything they can to make them seem less of a bad person. Here are seven common excuses we have all heard before from scums. It doesn't mean I don't love you Correct. It only means that your partner doesn't respect you. And if you can settle for that you are free to forgive them. When they caught in the act most cheaters will try to bargain