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Edging during sex - what is it and tips to edge perfectly

Experience a different kind of orgasm with edging.

Written by Bhakti Paun Sharma |Published : March 1, 2017 12:12 PM IST

Coming or reaching an orgasm is the first thing on your mind when you start having sex. But in the pursuit of it, you forget what an ultimate orgasm feels like. The regular foreplay, oral and then P into V with different positions may have satisfied you well till now but if you want to go a level up, give edging a try. In simple words, it is teasing but to a level where one reaches an orgasm and then doesn t come. Edging means practicing control on your orgasm. Even if you are right there, the ability to hold it back and then begin again will ultimately give you a mind-blowing orgasm.

It sounds pretty difficult but with a little practice, you ll be able to master the art. Here are some tips to help you edge correctly:

  • Begin deep breathing to calm yourself when you know you are reaching the cusp of orgasm.
  • Practice this alone i.e. when masturbating so that you don t make a mess of this trick when you are with your partner. Experts share top 3 techniques to last longer in bed.
  • You need to observe the point till which you can reach right before coming and then control. This will require a few trials but you ll discover your edging point soon.
  • Start slow. Kinky sex or orgasm may make it very difficult to achieve edging initially. Read: Real women tell you how to give the perfect orgasm.
  • When practicing with your partner, you can flip your partner over right when you are about to come. Concentrate on any type of foreplay or other sexual activities to keep the mood without coming.
  • Communicate. When practicing this with your partner, instead of just taking cues, talk. If they are about to come, help them switch over to something else. You can whisper Not yet or I want more of this, let me show you how and start doing something else that distracts them from coming but still keeps them aroused.
  • Practice this when you have time in hand. It will be quite frustrating if your partner has to wake up early the next day or has some commitments after your make-out session. Have you tried these five types of orgasms?
  • Repeat edging at least 2-3 times during one session to heighten the pleasure of the final coming.

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