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His penis is too large and it hurts! What should I do? (Sex query)

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I am a 25-year-old and I have recently started having sex with my boyfriend. While other girls complain that they don't feel anything when they have sex, my problem is the opposite. His penis is 8 inches long and all I feel is pain! What can I do about it? I don't want to leave him.

A survey we carried out found that the average size of the Indian penis is anywhere between 5 and 6 inches so your guy is way above average. Many women suffer from a condition called dyspareunia or pain during sex. The most common reason for this is because the vagina gets dry and it s the friction that s causing pain. What you can do is try some lubrication. There are various types you can choose from oil-based, water-based or even silicon-based.

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Another reason you re feeling such pain is because of your boyfriend s penis length, he could be hitting the cervix during thrusting which a lot of women find particularly uncomfortable. The cervix is the lower portion of the uterus where it joins the top end of the vagina. If your boyfriend is hitting this area while thrusting it can be particularly uncomfortable.

What you need to do is try some sex positions which don t allow for deep penetration. You could try the woman-on-top position as this allows you to control the thrusting. The missionary could also be used, just make sure you don t tilt your hips which will allows deep penetration.

You could also try spooning a position where you lay side by side on the bed like two spoons or standing sex against the wall. Avoid the doggy style or rear entry though because it allows for very deep penetration. Always keep the lubricant handy. And lastly please talk to your boyfriend about it and you can work together on finding the solution. Read more about Penis size should you really worry about it?

If these tips don t work you could consult a gynaecologist or a sex therapist. A lot of times, the problem could be psychological as well.

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