While your testosterone could be hitting an all-time high your lady might just shirk away and say ‘Not tonight honey’. We quite understand your disappointment because she might have hit you where it hurts the most. But ever wondered why she is depriving you of sex when you want to spice up your bedroom with groans and moans? If not here is what she means when she says no to love making. Read: 7 Things You Must NEVER Do Just after Sex It’s too early If you’ve started dating each other and she says ‘no’ to a plunge straight to bed