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11 sex etiquette tips for girls

Brush up on your etiquette in the bedroom.

If you thought social etiquette is all you need to learn about, it s time you polish your skills in the bedroom too. There are many unsaid rules for sex and both men and women need to abide by them. So if you aren t already aware ladies, here are some sex etiquette tips for you all:

  1. Read about sex: Don t be too na ve. Read about sex, know the basic terminology. No man wants to explain to you what a blowjob or oral sex is.
  2. Safe sex: Don t try to trap him by not taking the pill and if you think your guy is careless, buy condoms or don t let him in.
  3. Bad breath: Always pop a mint before you meet him or make-out. Also, take care of your morning breath. If you can, brush your teeth before going to bed so that it s not as bad in the morning. Read: 8 natural tips to beat bad breath.
  4. Personal hygiene: Always keep it clean and odour free down there. You don t need a bikini wax each time but if your guy goes down on you often, then you might want to keep the pubic hair trimmed. Also, ensure you have no body odour.
  5. Don t fake all the time: Whatever your reason may be for faking an orgasm, don t fake it all the time. There is no point not enjoying the act because then you ll get bored of it and that isn t good. Read: 5 reasons women should NEVER fake orgasms.
  6. Help him clean-up: If you are at his place, help him clear the mess after you both are done.
  7. Be open but not offensive: Communication is very important. It s good to express what you like and what you don t. However, express yourself clearly without getting offensive. You don t want him to feel you re doing a favour on him by offering sex.
  8. Initiate once in a while: It s not his job always. Try initiating and you ll see how amazing your sex life turns out to be.
  9. Be fair: If he does everything to please you and gives you an awesome time by going down on you, you need to take care of him too. Here are ways to give your man the perfect blowjob.
  10. Be active: Don t just lie down there while he takes all the effort. Even if it is the missionary, there are so many things you can do. Take control, be active, experiment. It s all about reciprocation.
  11. Keep your nails trimmed: If you love digging your fingers into his back or arms, it s expected that you keep your nails trimmed to not hurt him. Getting wild once in a while is good but you don t want him to bleed often.

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