10 steps to give your woman an orgasmic handjob

By: Editorial Team | | Updated: October 28, 2014 5:06 pm

Like men, women too wish to like to be pleasured in bed. Penetration is not the only way to do so. Just like men like to get a blowjob or handjob, women too can be stimulated in a similar manner. Using just your hands you can turn her on in ways you probably didn’t know existed, provided you know the right technique. It is a smooth way to stimulate the vagina, clitoris, or even the anus if preferred. Here are 10 steps to help you give your woman an orgasmic handjob. Also Read - Your ultimate sex guide for 2020: These will boost your bedroom performance for sure

As fingers are agile and flexible, they make for easy tools of stimulation. Firstly, ensure your nails are clean and short to avoid any injury in the area. Use your fingers to reach into her or use it as part of the intercourse.
You could start from her inner thighs and move your fingers further up in a smooth and sensual manner. Fingers have the ability to create different sensations as you can feel how her body responds to your hand movements. You could simply run your fingers around her pubic area in a light, ticklish manner just before you begin with the stroking.
It’s a naughty way to tease her in bed right before sex. You could kiss her lower body or complement it with oral sex.
Apart from the thighs, the clitoris and vagina can be stimulated for added pleasure.
As mentioned in the book ‘How to have a XXX sex life’, ‘Whether or not she has her underwear on, get on with placing your hand around her pubic area and let it stay there for a few minutes before the warmth of your hand begins to stimulate that area. Keep away from pressing it too hard or going too aggressive.’
Proceed with stroking her gently. Ensure your hand movements are not uncomfortable but pleasurable for her. Use your hands gently and ensure she is aroused. You could do this using a lubricant too. Ask her for cues to help you better the technique.
You could variate the movement by stroking your hand upwards, touching the outer lips of her vagina and touching her inner thighs. This creates a ‘tease sensation.’ Be slow with this movement initially and gradually increase the pressure with your hands.
The firm yet soft sensations of the fingers provide for a soothing and pleasurable massage in the area. As you begin go slow and increase your speed once you know you she’s about to climax. Do the same when you approach the clitoris too.
Your woman might favour a fast side-to-side motion or a diagonal movement around the clitoris area for an orgasm.
Providing pleasure to your woman with your hands is also a fun technique to explore and stimulate her G-spot. Know more on how to turn on your woman, here.