When you get pregnant you are full of happiness and hope. But sometimes due to some complication you may suffer a miscarriage. This can be traumatic and there is a risk that you may go into depression because of this. But you learn to live with it and move on. But when you get pregnant again you may be filled with apprehension. This can take the joy out of pregnancy. It is perfectly normal to feel conflicting emotions when you get pregnant after a miscarriage. CAUSES OF MISCARRIAGES Miscarriages are not that uncommon and nor is a successful pregnancy afterwards.