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5 reasons for lack of sexual desire in women (Gallery)

Whether the root is psychological, physiological, or both, low libido can put stress on a relationship and can create frustration for both partners.

Written by Editorial Team | Updated : September 25, 2014 1:03 PM IST



In some cases, a woman may be experiencing a hormonal imbalance that is affecting her libido. Though puberty and menopause are significant milestones that are marked by dramatic hormonal changes, women are constantly going through hormonal fluctuations throughout their lives. Testosterone, often associated with male libido, is not only present in women but is essential for female libido and its deficit can translate into lowered or minimal interest in sex.


Medical Conditions

Many diseases and medical conditions can affect libido. Examples of these include hypertension, obesity, cancer, and cardiovascular and neurological conditions. Leading a sedentary lifestyle, with its many adverse effects on health, can also lower libido. Also Read - Liver Cancer Treatment Gets More Effective: New Options Shows Promise



While side effects vary from person to person, many medications, including some anti-depressants and anti-anxiety, have side effects that affect your libido. Oral contraceptives (birth control pills), which essentially manipulate the hormone levels in your body, can also affect your libido. If you are on any medications and are experiencing low libido, talk to your doctor about your options.



Many psychological conditions can affect libido. Depression, for example, often has a feature called anhedonia, which is the inability to enjoy activities that used to be pleasurable, which can include sex. Drugs and alcohol, though they may enhance one’s mood, can flatten libido. Conditions such as anxiety or post-traumatic stress disorder, or even anorexia can certainly contribute to a woman’s libido. In addition, religious and personal beliefs about sexuality may also play a role in how a woman experiences her libido. Also Read - Green Tea May Cause Liver Damage In Some People: Who Is At Risk?


Life Stressors

Sometimes life’s challenges can put sex at the bottom of someone’s list of things to do. Fatigue and being overwhelmed with responsibilities can make some women feel a very low libido, especially if they are caretakers for others and are always putting others’ needs first. If a relationship with a partner is going through hardship or there is building resentment, that too can contribute to libido.


How Lack Of Libido Can Affect Your Life

The ripple effect of low libido can exceed beyond just the bedroom. Many couples feel physically and emotionally distant when they are not having regular sexual activity, and low libido can compound that by adding distressing feelings for both partners. The woman may feel guilty for being sexually unavailable and may avoid touching her partner altogether out of fear that it will give him the erroneous message that she is interested in having sexual activity. The man may feel rejected and unloved as the result of his partner not wanting to be sexually connected to him, regardless of her stated feelings of love for him. Here are some reasons for lack of sexual desire in women. Also Read - World’s First Intranasal COVID-19 Vaccine Developed By Bharat Biotech Gets CDSCO Approval