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Parents often lose their temper when they find their children have been lying. Since lying is not considered to be a positive trait, parents worry if it will impact the child's personality in any way, or end up jeopardising their future. According to parenting coach Swati Gupta, there are some dos and don'ts that parents ought to keep in mind while reacting to their children's transgressions, especially lying. Scroll down to find out more.
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This is considered to be a no-no. According to the expert, parents must not react impulsively or angrily, because it is possible that the child may lie more in the future.
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The parenting coach explained in an Instagram post that forcing a child to admit their 'mistake' without knowing the reason(s) for lying may make them hide things from you, as opposed to opening up to you.
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Creating an atmosphere of fear and distrust is not right, because parents may lose the opportunity to teach their kids about honesty and integrity, which are seen as positive traits.
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According to the expert, it is possible that the child may be experimenting with story-telling, or letting their imagination run wild. It is, therefore, important to be cautious.
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It is important for parents to stay calm and composed, and listen attentively to the child's explanation.
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Parents must ask open-ended questions to understand the motive behind the lie and reinforce the importance of honesty and trust in the relationship, said the expert.
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Parents must also offer guidance on problem-solving and finding alternative solutions, while providing positive reinforcement for truthful behaviour.
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It is important to address underlying issues that may be contributing to the lying, and to maintain an open line of communication and support for the child.
