It is heart-wrenching to see your child fret about exam results especially if all your conversations before the results were about best colleges grand holiday plans or cool gifts depending on the grades. It is bad enough as a parent but your child might find it tougher to come to terms with failure or poor grades. All this can make your child suffer silently dealing with feelings of helplessness and shame. And the sad part is you might not even know it. When should you worry about it? Whether you have a tween or a teenager remember they aren t