Being a mother especially to a daughter in today s day and age is a little unsettling a bit unnerving and for obvious reasons. For the past few days while reading the #MeToo stories the ordeal the victims had to go through the trauma and the distress they faced for years the scars that they will carry lifelong (of course we all have our own version of #MeToo) made me question one thing over and over again Will I with all the privileges opportunities a safe and secure environment that I am creating for my child be able to empower