As a mother I have come to realise that guilt is my go-to emotion. I feel guilty for being too attached to my child and also when I have to leave her to go to work. I feel guilty when I reprimand her and guilty when she misbehaves too. While I try to make sense of what motherhood is and how I can work on myself I also understand that parenting does not come with set rules and no matter how much people tell me that I should do specific things to get specific results I know that raising a