The Shailza Diwedi murder case has taken the whole nation by shock. No this isn’t the first time we are hearing about a jilted lover obsessed with his one-sided love killing his love interest in a fit of rage. But what is more alarming is the fact that the accused in question isn’t a roadside Romeo from whom such behaviour is suspected but an Army Major an officer of the highest ranks. We have debated this for long that education respect in society experience makes one mature enough to learn the art of letting go despite the scars it leaves