A recent poll by a matrimonial website may finally have answered what women really want? No they don't want six-pack abs or intelligence; they just want their men to help out with the chores! The study found that 39.5% want their men to know how to cook while 51.25% wished they would help with household chores. Major turn-offs in men included rudeness with service personnel and getting distracted by his cell phone during a conversation. Psychiatrist Anjali Chhabria told TOI: 'We ask men and women to voice their expectations so that the possibility of friction arising after marriage is reduced.