Foundations Of Happy Union: Important Tips For Sustaining Joyful Marriage

In a world where divorce is rampant and marriage separations are so common, a divine union is attained by overcoming ignorance and realizing the truth of what makes a marriage magical.

What is the secret of a happy marriage? What does it take to make a joyful union between a man and a woman? The secret is simple. It is when 1 + 1 does not become 2, when 1 + 1 does not become 11, but when 1 + 1 becomes 1, the battle is won. So, how can this happen? But this is only possible when we realize we are not the body, mind, and ego; we are Divine Souls. Every marriage is built on four pillars. A two-legged table can topple, but four pillars make a marriage a divine union.

What Are The Four Pillars?

The body, mind, heart and Soul. The magic in a marriage is only possible with a physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual bond. And so, we think we have achieved a 'Master's in marriage' by realizing that the secret of a successful marriage is a combination of a physical and an emotional bond. But this doesn't work. Look at a married couple having lunch or dinner, and you will find them looking at their watches to see how long it will take for their food to come.

How Can There Be A Divine Union?

How can a marriage work for life if two people get bored of each other? There must be not only a physical bond, which is essential, and an emotional bond that fosters understanding but also an intellectual bond that makes two people talk and walk together through life's journey. A spiritual bond is formed when two people realize they are soulmates. What is a Soul? A Soul is a Spark Of Unique Life, a Divine manifestation.

But What Magic Makes Marriage A Divine Union?

When two people realize this, they become real soulmates, and soulmates never fall apart.

• When love is true, there is no heartache and heartbreak; when people leave, it means that there is no love, and when there is true love, people don't. In a world where divorce is rampant and marriage separations are so common, a divine union is attained by overcoming ignorance and realizing the truth of what makes a marriage magical.
• A marriage must be a commitment. It is a relationship with no expectations and conditions, where love flows, where you don't tell each other, 'I love you because I need you.' This is the critical difference because when somebody says, 'I love you because I need you,' it means they don't love you; they only need you. But when somebody says, 'I need you because I love you,' it means they genuinely love you. That is why they need you.