Bhakti Paun Sharma
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Everyone is constantly judging and passing their verdict on how you should conduct yourself and live your life. To all you women, stop giving an ear to these comments and do what you think is the best. After all, no one knows how much your shoes hurt or how comfortable they are until they step into them. Here are 6 things women definitely need to stop worrying about:
1. Being child-free is selfish: I personally know a lot of women think of me that way. However, being child-free is the best decision I made. So women, if you don t want children, say it out loud. There is no reason you should worry about what the society says. Take pride in your decision and inspire others who are just too scared to come out in the open.
2. How dare you eat before your in-laws have had food: Another lame reason why society or even your own family members may call you selfish and even make you feel guilty. So what do you do if you are hungry and others at home aren t? Keep waiting for an hour or more till they can eat or sneak in a snack to control the pangs. It s high time people grow up. So stop dying of guilt and go ahead and grab that plate. Did you know these 5 people can ruin your marriage?
3. OMG! You are out with friends without your kids: Does anyone ever ask that to a man? Then why do you need to answer it. If you want the society to change, be the change. Stop worrying about all these comments and do what you feel is correct. After all, you are the parent and you know what is best for your child.
4. Kid unwell and you are in office: Well, so is the father of the child! So don t make yourself feel you don t care enough. Mothers definitely know when they need to be home and with their child. However, just like home, you have some responsibility at work and it s absolutely alright if you have taken the call to go to work after ensuring your kid is in safe hands and has taken the right medication. Stop worrying about what everyone else will say. Here are 10 things you can do when your child has fever.
5. 28 and still single: Singles are tired of these dialogues. What age are we living in? There are better things in life than just getting married and rearing babies. A girl should get married only when she actually wants to and not because she s ageing or there is societal pressure. Here are 7 confessions from a single girl.
6. Leaving your child in daycare: You ll hear this a lot, Is money more important than your child? and for a moment, you ll ponder. But then, sitting at home and taking care of your child isn t going to pay his school fees or help you give her a better life. For single mothers, not working isn t an option. And for all others, we women work out of passion and interest too. It s not always the money that attracts everyone. You are meticulously managing family life along with work. Leaving a child in a good daycare is a decision taken for the sake of the child and for your well being so stop worrying about what the world is saying. Here are some tips for choosing the right daycare for your child.
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