Written By: Shaloo Tiwari | Updated : October 31, 2017 5:12 PM IST
Fat shaming existed since forever, it is just that these days people are speaking up against it and not letting trolls or bullies take a dig. However, time and again people need to be schooled how to not be rude to people who are fat and are more than happy with how they are. Hoping that soon there will be no need to for people to be told how not to disrespect fat people, here are a few things you should never say to them.
1. To try out some random diet- For all you know she knows about more diet types than you.
2. About borrowing their clothes or lending yours- You know they are not going to fit, who are we kidding here?
3. Telling them about the ill-effects of being over-weight- She must have done more research than you for sure.
4. Telling them how you manage to maintain your weight- She may have some health issues because of which she is not able to lose weight. Both of you are two different people for god's sake.
5. Asking them to try yoga or some new fancy gym- Let her be. She'll do the needful. Not that she doesn't know what to do.
6. 'You are not very fat'- Excuse me! Is that sarcastic?
7. 'You want some more? Only this much food won't be enough for you.'- Bigger size doesn't mean bigger space inside. Go get a life.
8. 'Khate Pite Ghar ki'- This is the worst thing you could say. She might just laugh and move on, doesn't mean she won't remember it.
9. 'You should wear black, you'll appear slimmer'- She will wear whatever she likes. Keep your uncalled for opinion to yourself
10. 'OMG! I have gained weight'- You are saying this in front of her? Really?
11. Oh! don't worry you'll find someone- She definitely will. Stop being so mean.
12. Stand here you'll look slimmer in pictures- You don't need to be worried about her. This is straight up shaming!
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