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Yuzvendra Chahal recently opened up about his internal battle with depression, anxiety attacks, and suicidal ideation after his divorce from influencer-choreographer Dhanashree Verma during a raw and honest conversation on Raj Shamani's podcast.
Chahal indicated that there was a time of extreme distress within the last 40 or so days of his marriage until shortly after:
In addition to emotional suffering, Chahal endured a lot of criticism. He was falsely labelled as a "cheater", which made him feel badly hurt and violated. He has lamented about the influence of social media on his personal life, without any justification, and that he was in a companionship with RJ Mahvash and its ability to cause further harm by increasing his trauma.
By posting about his internal journey, Chahal managed to transform his experience into a more universal one: that mental health problems can be faced by anyone, no matter how famous they are or what image they uphold in the world. His openness about his decision disproves the stigma of depression and suicidal thoughts, mostly towards men and athletics.
1. Accept and Acknowledge Your Emotions
Divorce, in most cases, results in a combination of grief, anger, shame, confusion and even relief. Rather than keeping all those emotions to yourself, go ahead and experience those emotions. Write down how you feel in a journal, speak to a close confidant, or just sit with your feelings without trying to change them.
2. Seek Professional Help Early
It is prudent not to wait until you have gone into crisis. A counsellor or therapist will be able to assist you.
Online mental health services have services readily available to you, even when you are not quite yet comfortable with in-person sessions.
3. Surround Yourself with Positive Support
You do not have to have a big circle, just a few nonjudgmental, reliable people. Share your thoughts with the people you can relate to. Avoid those who urge you to move on, making you feel guilty, comparing, and being resentful with other people.
4. Limit Social Media Exposure
Social media may contribute to anxiety and depression after the divorce, especially when you are exposed to the posts of your ex or comparisons drawn with healthy couples. Consider:
5. Engage in Mindfulness & Relaxation Techniques
You can also resort to various activities that will calm your nervous system and tone down the emotional overwhelm, such as meditation, yoga, breathing exercises, or deep muscle relaxation. Apps such as Insight Timer, Headspace, or Calm will help you to practise mindfulness every day.
6. Avoid Major Life Decisions Too Soon
Don't rush into making such huge life choices as moving cities, changing jobs, or dating at a time when the emotions are fresh. Never get back on your feet too early. Be deliberate, not responsive, with what you do next.
Chahal's divorce reportedly took a toll on his mental health, leading to feelings of depression and suicidal thoughts.
Chahal opened up about experiencing depression and suicidal thoughts after his divorce, sharing his emotional struggles.