Most of us spend our lives trying to leave a good impression on others. By doing so we expect to gain some ounce of validation if not appreciation from them. When we cannot find our self-esteem ourselves we want others to hand it to us on a platter. Little things can make us criticise ourselves quite harshly. A small protruding belly an almost invisible scar on your face left by a pimple or even a small mistake that you made. We forget that perfection only exists as a word in the dictionary and all these little things are what make