Bladder problems in men is all about urinary incontinence and prostate gland problems. Gary was so embarrassed by this incontinence that he tried to hide it from his wife. He would wash his underwear and then take them to the garage to dry. He also got to the point where he didn t want to golf anymore fearing that his swing would trigger some leakage. One thing he could not give up was playing with his grandchildren but he was afraid that if he turned the wrong way while wrestling on the floor with them he might have an accident.