How Should One Let Go Of Their Ego And Awaken Their Higher Self?
How Should One Let Go Of Their Ego And Awaken Their Higher Self?
While having ego is not inherently bad, when left unchecked, it can dominate our inner world, feeding off fear, competition, comparison, and control. Know how to let go of it and achieve spiritual awareness.
Written By:
Prerna Mittra
| Published : July 12, 2025 8:57 AM IST
How Should One Let Go Of Their Ego And Awaken Their Higher Self? (Photo: Freepik)
How to let go of ego and become a more evolved human being? This is a very interesting and a commonly-asked question worldwide. Every human being has ego, but some of life's greatest miseries are created by it. In the journey of spiritual awakening, however, one of the most transformative shifts is enlightening the ego, says AiR Atman in Ravi, a happiness ambassador and spiritual leader. He adds that ego gives birth to anger, hate, revenge, and jealousy, and makes life miserable.
What Is Ego?
"The ego is a product of the mind -- a mind that does not exist. It is a bundle of toxic thoughts. The mind is our biggest enemy, as it gives rise to a number of negative emotions and at the same time, gives birth to ego that says, 'I, me and mine.' The ego can either make us or break us," he says.
The expert states that our existence is because of our body and with it, the ego that says 'I', 'me' and 'mine'. "We are individuals, who come to the planet for a purpose. We are powered by a unique soul. We talk of how the ego is inflated and ugly, but we do not have a choice. The ego is 'I' and will exist, from birth till the moment of the body's death. Many people think the purpose of life is to kill the ego, or to destroy it. But, we cannot. I will be 'I' till I die but I do not have to suffer and cry if only I can realise who I really am in reality. The only way is to be enlightened. When the ego is enlightened, we realise the truth of our identity: we are not the body, mind and ego that we appear to be. We are the divine 'soul', the 'spark of unique life'," he explains.
According to the happiness ambassador, awakening to a higher self is enlightening our ego. It can be achieved by doing the following things:
Ask the question 'Who am I?', then go deep into the very being of your existence.
It is a quest into the human body, the human mind, and the realisation of our ego. When we realise the ego is a lie, we start our journey towards an enlightened ego.
The quest for the ultimate truth leads us to an understanding -- that we are not the body that will perish.
Then, Who Are We?
The spiritual leader says that the realisation of the truth is the purpose of every human being born on this planet. It is about going beyond the ego and awakening the higher self. "This awakening involves moving beyond the ego -- the limited, fear-based identity shaped by external influences -- and connecting to the deeper, eternal essence within. The higher self represents wisdom, compassion, intuition and alignment with universal truth. Stepping beyond the ego is not about rejecting the self, but transcending its illusions to embrace a more expansive consciousness," he explains.
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How To Enlighten Ego And Progress On The Path Of Spiritual Awakening
Practise mindful awareness: Observe your thoughts and reactions without judgment. Notice when the ego is at play (during moments of anger, defensiveness, pride or insecurity). The act of witnessing it will help create a space between us and ego, allowing the higher self to emerge.
Embrace silence, solitude: Regular moments of stillness through meditation, nature walks or simple breathwork can quieten the ego's noise. In silence, we can tune into the subtle whispers of the higher self and inner self.
Cultivate compassion and non-attachment: By practising compassion for ourselves and others and by loosening the grip on rigid beliefs or outcomes, we can rise above the ego's narrow perspective and progress on the path of spiritual awakening.
Seek inner truth: The ego constantly looks for external approval. The higher self knows that our worth is intrinsic. We must strive towards making choices based on the inner truth.
Let go of control: The ego craves control to feel secure. Awakening the higher self involves trusting in the flow of life. This does not mean being passive. It means understanding that surrendering to a higher wisdom brings more peace and clarity.
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