Most people think that sex during pregnancy is unthinkable. But that is not true. While for some sex might be the last thing their mind, for others sexual intimacy might be exciting. So if your girl wants to get close to you, know that it isn't going to be the same as it was pre-pregnancy. She needs it, but your approach needs to be different, subtle and still affectionate. This isn’t the time to try your wild and ecstatic moves. Wondering what she wants? Here goes the list:
Intimacy and not just action: Get closer. Touch, feel, kiss, hug and keep pampering her in bed. With the growing belly, movement might be restricted while desires take a peak. So remember, more than action it’s the gestures that is going to do the trick.
Foreplay: The more the better. It is fine if you give her orgasmic pleasure through foreplay. No, she won’t complain. In fact, when the belly becomes an obstruction for smooth action, foreplay is the best way to satisfy your woman’s desires.
Gentle massage: We repeat ‘gentle’ because you need to press her lightly – on her shoulders, back and probably neck – if you go wrong with the massages it could trigger something as grave as an early labour or rupture the water bag. Pregnancy aches and pains are quite common. A little massage before the action is always welcome.
Slow movements: Remember the conventional missionary will not be possible with the belly bulging out and you might have to experiment with other sex positions like entering her from the back. When you do this, remember to go slow with your movements. Anything wild will just kill the romance and make her averse towards sex during pregnancy.
Engaging comments: It is a known fact that women love words more than action. So when it comes to action in bed, get talking. It is difficult for men to prioritise words in bed, but to keep your girl happy you need to master the game of word play.
Compliments: You can’t go wrong with this. The more you compliment her now, the more she will be confident of her body. This will make her less stressed about sex and how you perceive her changing body in bed. This will help you both get closer and also build intimacy.
Kisses: Never underestimate the power of kisses. Kiss has the power to help her get closer, open up and melt in your arms asking for more love with every passing second.
Hugs: Give her hugs more often and very generously. It ensures security and bonding between the two and also helps to ease tension and pregnancy stress.